clip from Prof. Sam Vaknin
Comments from my experiences

Punish 4 being good, torture 4 being smart, take all accomplishments away, sabotage any future accomplishments, diminish & slander afterwards.
Forcing, coercing & brainwashing children & spouse 2 become their servants. We t 2 provide a service.

Growing up told ur crazy, DESTROY ur belief in SELF - isolate from all support 2 make u give up.
physical violence, choking till unconscious, then locking up & telling every1 ur "uncontrollable". As if ur the problem, the terror & need harsh discipline. Even if u've never been in trouble & most people describe u as an angel... cuz ur so afraid 2 ever relax & just B a normal kid when blame, criticism, punishments come out of nowhere. Ur hypervigilant watching urself constantly 2 avoid trouble. Especially when ur framed & blamed 4 things u don't even do.

If he cant make u give up ur will, no matter the abuse (which he tells every1 is tough love) he will need 2 get rid of u anyway he can. Lock u up, discredit, tell every1 u'r a liar in case u ever try going 4 help... He will involve drs, police, judges & corrupt with his lies. There r no red lines. Y must B banished from HIS family, who r HIS property under HIS control. His desire 2 murder u is obvious & always has been but ur told ur crazy 4 thinking such things.

If u survive long enough 2 finally claim ur own life, & u do well like u always knew u would, ur accomplishments will B ignored. No recognition from others will sway his opinion. U can never prove urself 2 them.

They will say u manipulated, u snowed people, u r not who u represent yourself 2 B. The irony in that is everything they say u r is everything they r & cannot ever let any1 know of.. but the accusations R REALLY JUST ADMITTALS!

When I say my father is evil, what better description is there? They try to convince you to betray yourself and sell your soul to them. If you don't, they will destroy you.

It does not get better with time or age. U r simply a constant reminder of their failure & they hate u 4 it. If u find urself in a vulnerable spot, do not ever go 2 ur family, who is controlled by them. U will lose everything.
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