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10 traits of a great woman. (With a great man)

About a month ago I did a video about the 10 traits of a good man. I was a bit surprised at the amount of women who after watching that video asked me to do one on the 10 traits of a good woman so I did. This list is just a guideline. No one is perfect. Just like women men don’t require perfection just effort. Love is an action word to me. Sometimes that action is self improvement. These traits can keep a man around long after he’s explored you sexually. With that said


1. Supportive- the best relationships involve two people who support each other. Just as your man is supposed to be your biggest motivator and inspiration you are supposed to be his cheerleader and coach. I’m always shocked at the every man for himself attitude that so many people bring to relationships. You may not always get along or be in a good place but relationships are about actively loving each other despite your differences. There people who covet (as in resentful spiteful graspingness not jealous yearning)their support when they aren’t pleased with their partner. Thats counter intuitive. Sometimes while we still love them, we may not always like our partners. Feeling supported makes us feel loved. Remaining supportive through rough times can save a relationship. Some of y’all ask me how to fix your relationships. Start supporting your man again, like you did when you liked him.

2. Self governed- nothing irritates me more than hearing a woman diminish a mans value and masculinity because of their skewed perception of power. I’ve heard this a lot. “Girl, he wast too weak, I need a man who can handle me” Ladies listen carefully, men don’t want to handle you. They want you to handle you damn self. You’re not a circus animal. The lions at the zoo need handlers and tamers. A grown ass woman should only need an understanding. Great women are self governed. They speak appropriately they act appropriately and they aren’t adversarial. They are good to good men because they have respect not because their man has to constantly put them in check. Good women check they damn self.

3. Balanced (emotionally/logically)- balance is one of the most underrated qualities. You don’t always notice it while it’s present but if you find yourself stressed out about seeing, talking to, or dealing with with partner is usually because they lack balance. Whether it’s balance emotionally, logically, energetically, spiritually, behaviorally or otherwise. Balance is keeps peace. Good women understand that balance will help their man relate to them. It gives them credibility because they aren’t always crying wolf emotionally. With that said it’s hard to be balanced without this next trait.

4. A good woman is introspective. Introspection is probably the rarest quality on this list. Most people can judge and measure the conduct of others but seem to lack the vision required to see themselves honestly. They don’t take responsibility or understand the impact of their actions. They don’t want to be obligated to change anything they discover. Good women are aware of their flaws and seek to understand their weaknesses as much as their strengths. They can self correct and admit their flaws. Taking responsibility in this way helps your partner see you more favorably and humanizes you more during times your relationship is on the rocks. It also causes men to want to meet you halfway by dealing honestly with their own flaws.