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There are five ways to make your ex regret breaking up with you. This is Clark with the fees in the set. I'll welcome to a very special edition, anti Valentine's day video or something like that. Right? And in this video we're going to talk about not getting a relationship, not making a relationship great, but using the pain of being out of one. And I can relate really well to this because two or three years ago I went through a really, really rough breakup, but someone who I was in a long-term relationship with and it was just there. There was no bad blood. I'll leave it there, but it felt like your whole life starts over. So I can empathize what you're going through. If you searched and you clicked on this video and you're like, what is this guy gonna tell me about, uh, you know, a breakup or whatever.

It just sucks. All right, let's just get that out of the way up. Suck. They shatter an identity of who you were. But the good news is that sometimes things fall apart for them to come back better and stronger. Okay. So shattered the identity of who you were, but now you have an opportunity right now to step into a new identity of who you want to become. And so in this video, I want to give you these five reframes that you can use this experience. Five things to make them regret breaking up with you. Yes, that's like a lower vibrational form regret. And like I'm a prove them wrong and like, Aw, I'm gonna get them back and all this stuff. But if that motivates you to make a change, screw it. Who cares? These are the five things. Number one we've been talking about, this is to use it when Mark Zuckerberg, founder of Facebook, when he got broken up with that motivated him to create like a dating app site, right?

If you've seen the social network, you know all about this. So imagine this, he got broken up with, he started this social media dating site eventually spawned into Facebook, which is, you know, billions and billions of dollar company. I don't, I don't have to tell you the rest of the story there. He used that pain to channel it and do something better to prove them wrong. That's such a powerful motivation that you now have the power to tap into. So instead of sitting there and wallowing and petty and stuff, you know, and just binge watching a Netflix show or something, or drinking herself to death or whatever, or like, you know, crying about it. What if you use this as your stepping stone to start making so many changes that you want to do, that you're going to prove them wrong. Here's the other thing. If you're the same person right now and you want to get your ex back, let's just say for whatever reason, look, I don't really believe in getting Xs back at work sometimes, but I have my own experiences with that.

I think he broke up for a reason and they're, they're gone. They're a much dramatic way of saying they're dead to you. Forget them, move on in the next person who deserves you. So what if instead of sitting there in a wallet, when you do the second thing, which is to channel it now, relationships have such deep emotion. And why you're probably hurting right now. It's because relationships tap on pretty much every need, emotional, physical, psychological, all that stuff. And it gets to our deep is deepest rooted emotion, which is our need for love. Okay, follow me here. If you don't love a baby, they die. You don't take care of that baby. They can't take care of itself until what age for? It's crying out. That's what they do. They cry out for things. They need it because if they don't get it, they die.

So we need that sense of like love. And that's why relationships are so hard sometimes, especially when they end. And I don't know how yours ended or you know, if you're watching this right now, I'm taking it. That did. But what if you were to channel that energy and fix yourself? Start improving yourself. I saw an Instagram post, kinda corny but true. It said breakups make bodybuilders, you know that like some guys instead of just staying stuck. And this breakup was the, the the, you know, quicksand that started sucking me down in the spiral of depression and whatever. They channel it and they say, no, fuck that man. And they'd go in the gym and they start working out. Okay. Um, another example is you can use it to fix all the things that you don't like about yourself. Maybe superficial, maybe getting more style...