In this episode, I sit down with Nicolas Blooms, a detransitioner, artist, and creator of a unique graphic novel. Nicolas shares his profound journey of detransitioning, delving into the spiritual and emotional aspects of reclaiming his sense of self and finding a sustainable, embodied way of living. I explain my current model of how gender dysphoria changes over time along the spectrum between ego-syntonic and ego-dystonic — a key piece of psychological insight missing from the current culture wars over the treatment of gender-distressed youth — and we compare my hypothesis with Nicolas’ lived experience.

Together, we explore the transformative powers of mentorship, mindfulness, and self-acceptance, touching on the deep wounds of childhood and the impact of societal pressures on identity. But what led Nicholas to create a detransition graphic novel, unlike anything seen before? How did a chance encounter with a mentor spark a journey of healing and self-discovery? And what role did gender ideology play in Nicolas's struggle with self-hatred and body dysmorphia? Tune in to uncover the answers and join us on a heartfelt exploration of resilience, growth, and the power of embracing one's true self.

Nicolas Blooms is a Detransitioner, Gender Shaman, and ArtSoulogist. He is full of fruity passion to create ways for people to spark the deeper magical wisdom within their hearts. While training as a life coach to guide Detransitioners and gender confused individuals, he also co-creates a children’s book series, You Can’t Steal My Smile, with his friend Kim O, a Relational Soul Coach (from episode 80!), to empower children to root in their inner resilience. Witness his liberating journey to self-love and remembering his Soul by soaking in his graphic novel: Trans to Detrans: A Soul Solution. It’s totally possible to heal gender dysphoria and any other mental dis-ease!

Find Nicolas Blooms: linktr.ee/nicolasblooms
Instagram:   / nicolasblooms  
Youtube: @NicolasBlooms

Books mentioned in this episode:
Trans to Detrans: A Soul Solution https://amzn.to/3uQCKNg
Saguaro Soul children's book series - Nicolas Blooms and Kim O
I Want Prickles Too! https://amzn.to/3OPZN1y
Roe the Rabbit Lost His Happy Hop https://amzn.to/3wrzSaf

All books mentioned on this podcast can be found at https://sometherapist.com/bookshop or by following the Amazon affiliate links. Thank you for purchases that support the show.

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00:00 Start
[00:01:41] Detransition graphic novel creation.
[00:06:16] Mentorship and spirituality.
[00:10:50] Mentorship and self-transformation.
[00:13:36] Rejecting masculinity and identity.
[00:19:30] Gender identity exploration.
[00:22:39] War with self-image.
[00:25:27] Gender transition and family support.
[00:31:25] Emotional expression and self-identity.
[00:35:26] Cultural challenges and self-identity.
[00:39:26] Overcoming childhood bullying trauma.
[00:44:20] Battle with body image.
[00:46:48] The power of hope.
[00:51:54] Gender euphoria and emotional instability.
[00:54:48] Gender dysphoria and self-expression.
[01:02:06] Inner conflict and self-discovery.
[01:06:18] Gender ideology as a virus.
[01:07:01] Healing within family systems.
[01:12:48] Ego dystonic and ego syntonic.
[01:14:33] Gender dysphoria progression.
[01:19:21] Overcoming gender dysphoria.
[01:23:14] Stories of victory and resolution.


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