hi friends, welcome to a very unplanned rambly lil video about daughterhood: in particular the expectations of eldest daughterhood, how it manifests into personality traits like perfectionism that I see in myself, and how I’m trying to remedy these traits!! 👑🦋🌱💌🌻✨

As mentioned in the video, I truly am SO grateful for my family and have a wonderful relationship with them all, hence I’m comfortable to talk about this topic. I think we can deeply love the people in our lives and still reflect on how our relationship to them has shaped us in desirable and undesirable ways!! 🌷 shoutout to my Mum for making me so conscious of the idea of intergenerational trauma and inspiring me to introspect.

All of us are v v v different and I might be the only one who feels these things, but I’m so intrigued what you feel like the expectations of daughterhood are like for you!! There’s so many cultural, historical and personal/familial factors and I’m FASCINATED by it tbh.

Big love to you all! 🦋

Timestamps:
00:00 Apparently I'm Different at Uni vs at Home
03:05 Expectations of Daughterhood
11:01 Personality Traits: perfectionism, control, hyperindependence
15:01 How I'm Overcoming Undesirable Traits

special thank you to my good friends Emma and Esther for directly inspiring this video!! i love you both sm 💌


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