When you decided that you were going to try for a baby (TTC) together it felt like the most romantic thing ever and boy did it give your relationship a boost inside and outside of the bedroom.
Then when it took a bit longer to get that positive test than expected, you started researching supplements and lifestyle changes. But as time goes by you seem to be getting some resistance from your love, he won’t cut back on coffee, doesn’t want to get a sperm test done, won’t give up drinking or smoking or perhaps will take/do anything, as long as you’re the one handing him the pills.
You can’t help but wonder, are you still really trying to conceive together?

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Journaling prompts:
* Are you TTC together?
* Who is carrying the mental load about getting pregnant and what to do to get there?
* What are your conversations like on this topic?
* Do you equally take responsibility for your own health, denying yourself of things you know aren’t good for you but that you like?
* Who is initiating sex inside or outside of your fertile window?

Conversation starters:
* Health / fertility budget?
* Sex life, is it good or not? Is the focus on TTC or on the relationship?
* Is your desire for a baby equal or not? If not, what to do about it? Does it matter?

Chapters:
00:00 Intro
01:12 Are you both participating in trying to get pregnant?
04:11 Parenthood starts before conception
06:29 Fertility resources often are directed at women
07:40 Infertility is often “blamed” on women
07:51 You want to have a baby more than your man
09:21 The risks of not TTC “together”
10:36 Strengthening your relationship while TTC
10:57 Journaling prompts & conversation starters